is what leads to not take account of the children when they claim to have suffered violence or abuse by either parent. Talk to a psychotherapist and CTU: "Psychotherapy with the children must adopt the principles similar to those of deprogramming (deprogramming) undertaken with prisoners who were ndottrinati from enemy propaganda, undergoing brainwashing, to the point of a show a public aversion to their country of origin. Psychotherapists must learn not to take too seriously the complaints of children and understand that should enable them to decide to reject the alienated parent "In practice, more and more 'is often the case that children are not heard and that, faced with an aversion to either parent, is diagnosed with PAS, without elaborating the reasons for the child, and sometimes not listening at all. Thus, if the reasons were related aversion to sexual abuse or violent behavior, this would be neglected to the point of depriving the child of her world and the only parent with whom he has a deep emotional relationship for place in a home where they would come with ways to convince sometimes violent, that the parent who refuses is good, he is mistaken, if you do not agree that it will no longer see my mother, to reduce it to a state of total despair that sometimes also leads to all attempts to suicidio.Contro this, it beats the Victims of Juvenile Justice Committee.
Minutes of the Meeting of 7/3/2009: "Child Abuse: Criminal and civil protection - the Child's Advocate" Parental Alienation Syndrome: This unknown. 1) How a parent can remove the other from the lives of children, 2) Attorney: the risk of complicity ... .. the unconscious?
On March 7th '09 was held at the Lloyds Baia Hotel Salerno, organized by
"National Observatory on Family Law - section of Salerno"
whose Chairman is the lawyer. M. Teresa De Scianni, under the Patronage Council of the Bar Association in Salerno, the conference entitled:
"Child Abuse: Criminal and civil protection - the Child's Advocate"
Psychologist Dr. Laura with assistance from the English of Dr. Simonetta Matone - Head of Cabinet Ministry of Equal Opportunities - of Virginia Prof. Zambrano and the Public Prosecutor of the Court Juvenile Sassari Dr. Francis Verdolino.
Particular interest was aroused by the report, illustrated with slides - which are attached - held by Dr. Laura English psychologist and psychotherapist, CTU in the ordinary courts and ecclesiastical on:
Parental Alienation Syndrome: This unknown.
3) How a parent may cancel each other by their child;
4) The Advocate: the risk of complicity ... .. the unconscious?
This syndrome - known as "PAS Parental Alienation Syndrome" - describes the disorder psychopathology of children resulting from the trauma of a separation conflict.
The PAS is a form of emotional abuse that originated in the trauma continued exposure of children to parents indoctrinating, which sends them his pathological hatred towards each other.
PAS contribute to the onset of two factors:
The first is "indoctrination" by a parent against the other (we'll talk about parental mobbing) It is usually favored by the environment: family, friends, lawyers and especially unconscious, hopefully, or in bad faith.
The second is the alignment with the parent who is brainwashing the children, who show themselves personally involved in a campaign of denigration against the other parent who is "hated" (the alienated parent, disparaged the victim or the target).
The purpose is to exclude him from their lives:
1.sabotaggi of visits with the child,
2.emarginazione from decision-making typical of the parents (choice of school, medical visits, celebrations of anniversaries, etc.. )
3.minacce,
4.campagna to denigrate and delegitimize family and society.
disparagement, if it has not been enough to break the emotional bond between the target parent and children, you can also add false statements or complaints (including sexual abuse of non-existent).
How is it the PAS
In type mild aversion is relatively shallow and the children to cooperate with the parent visits denigrated, but they are sometimes overly critical and moody. In the moderate type
alienation is more profound: the children are more aggressive and disrespectful and the campaign of denigration may be almost continuous. In severe type
visits the alienated parent may be hampered by intense feelings and manifestations of persecution / hostility on the part of children, which may lead them to commit acts intended to cause physical harm or grief to the hated parent.
Effects on Children: Children
manifest aggression,
tendency to acting-out (expression of their emotional experiences through action rather than conflicting with the language. The subject behaves very thoughtful, without considering possible negative consequences of his actions).
egocentric, manipulative
future character and / or materialistic,
self-destructive behavior, obsessive-compulsive and employees
narcissism, false self,
psychosomatic disorders, food, relationships, education and sexual identity;
excessive rationalization, emotional or intellectual confusion, low self-esteem
,
depression, phobias and regression.
What to do?
The PAS is the responsibility of the alienating parent, who is blinded by hate.
He must be helped to see how serious the consequences of their behavior on their children and, if persisted in this subtly abusive behavior must be punished with warnings up to the lifting of the child custody and the revocation of parental responsibility.
He must understand that it is staining of serious misconduct, permanent psychological damage as a child, and therefore can not get away unpunished and remain, convinced that he is above any law.
is essential synergy between legal practitioners (lawyers, judges, who are regarded as totally unprepared to understand the seriousness of abusive behavior for the child's psychological development that will bring the signs for life) and psychosocial professionals ( technical consultants, psychotherapists). Only in this way the child will be brought back to a normal psychological development.
1.Sinergia among legal practitioners (lawyers, judges) and psychosocial professionals (Technical consultants, psychotherapists): a clear and swift legal action, aimed to discourage in any way - even resorting to removal of the abusive parent if they s'irrigidisse in his position - any attempt at sabotage by the alienating parent. Better than the family of a relative or a stranger that the presence of the abuser.
2. psychotherapy with children must adopt the principles similar to those of deprogramming (deprogramming) undertaken with prisoners who have been indoctrinated by enemy propaganda, undergoing brainwashing, to the point of a public expressions of hatred towards their country of 'origin.
Psychotherapists must learn not to take too seriously the complaints of children and understand that should enable them to decide to reject the alienated parent.
The psychotherapist must avoid adding violence to violence, assuming that attending parent-child represents a force and the sheer normality restored.
This will apply the best therapy is to give children the opportunity to experience the alienated parent is not as dangerous or despicable, as he was led to believe.
In PAS cases was serious conflict of loyalty of the child is so acute as to render impossible the meetings. This implies that
meetings are arranged first by the therapist and does not go to the children assigned responsibility for the decision of the meeting but that it comes from the therapist or by the judge. Dr. Laura
English - (Salerno)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, CTU.
Mr. Rodolfo Tullio Parrella
member of the Observatory on Family Law.
Via Roma, 11 (Battipaglia)
Tel 0828/344750 - Fax 0828/341833 E.mail
rodpar@tin.it
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